have been pondering about life and the people u meet it amazing how many do change ur life.......
often when something does go haywire u keep wondering what u did to upset the balance of the universe and then u find out it really is not your fault.
I have realised that i will not keep punishing my self for acts of other people........
MOst importantly i have decided that i can place my happiness on the shoulders of an other human being ............i mean how can an other person decided to make me feel unhappy and if a person does obviously that person does not belong in my world.
Also have learned and learned well i must say that a human being gets a parcel of his/her personal happiness and when u demand more than that u being selfish and self centered and that destroys the balance of the universe.
Thus i now realise that i must be happy with what i have and stop comparing my self with my friends and their life.
I personally have a great life and no need or desire to complain..........
I have found my secret my secret to be happy.